zondag 3 juni 2012

Jeez, thanks!


I met some people yesterday. I met some the day before (every day you meet new people) .
 I don’t know if I will ever see them again. I wasn't in there presence for long but they were wonderful.
They were wonderful because they gave me a present that I will always take with me, to the future.

Dreams
I’m a dreamer. You cannot break my spirit. You can only burst by bubble, take away my dreams. But I’ll be blowing those bubbles again in no time. I will always keep dreaming.

But, did you ever dream that dream in which you were with a certain person and suddenly they changed into a complete other person and left you all confused? Did you step out of that confusion and keep on dreaming?

Move forward
They say things don’t change, people change. Everything changes.  It’s inevitable, because the only thing that’s constant is change.
We’re only human. We’re social beings. We were made by each other, for each other, need to live next to each other, with each other and cannot live without each other.
We like to think we don’t need anyone, sometimes, that we’re perfectly fine by ourselves. But we need each other to move forward, to change, to grow.
And you might think some people don’t want to see you go forward, this might be true, it’s called jealousy. You might think some people are trying to hold you back but they are actually unwillingly still pushing you forward, but it’s up to  realize that and make that step.

We never walk alone
I say, walk away from trouble, focus on the positive things in life and leave the negative things behind.  Don’t let anything or anyone break you.
Walk away from the negativity, I said.
When you walk away from someone you might think you leave that person behind. Physically you do leave them, standing there. Maybe you look over your shoulder once or twice. Maybe you wipe away your tears.
They say it’s never the right time to say goodbye. But we never truly say goodbye. 
That person you leave standing there is the person you take with you. That person becomes a part of you in your mind or in your heart. They become this thought, this piece of your looking glass that will forever change your perspective on life. They will become that, what will make you think twice in the future.
So we actually never ever walk alone. We are always together.


Be thankful
You might hate on people in your past, you might regret, you might hold grudges. But holding grudges over things that happened in the past is ancient artifact. I know, it’s difficult.
It’s difficult to see people who have hurt you as a blessing and to be thankful for the trouble they caused. But we should be thankful for the people who have hurt us and thought us those important lessons.
We should be thankful to those who hurt us and those who healed us. We should be thankful for the people who helped us, who were our light at the end of the dark tunnel, who gave us a helping hand when we thought no one else would.


We all teach
When we’re in class we all look in front of us at the teacher who’s trying to educate us. We realize that she’s trying to teach us all kinds of things, but we do not think the same about the friend or acquaintance, fellow student sitting next to us. But the truth is that that person next to you will teach you more about life than every other ‘teacher’.

The past is in the future
You will meet a variety of people in your life. You never know when your paths will cross and when your paths will split again. 
Time will tell. Time passes. We’re in the present, moving to the future, leaving our past behind. But do we truly leave our past behind?
They say there’s a reason why people in your past did not make it to your future. 

But how about a change of perspective? 

The people in your past are the reason you made it to the future, came out stronger. 
The ones who taught you how to do things differently. 
The reason you had a change of mind, a change of heart.
 They’re probably the reason you will keep fighting to go forward and become everything you can be, and more.
They’re probably the reason you changed. They made you who you are today.

They are your lesson learned. 



So be thankful & move forward.




2 opmerkingen:

  1. Your past does certainly change your future. Sometimes I wonder that if some people never crossed my path how my future would look like today. Everyone of them left a piece of my life puzzle.
    Thanks for sharing your thoughts Xeen

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    1. Thanks mommy :D Your family is the first piece of the puzzle. The foundation you build on :D

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